COMPLEX PARTIAL SEIZURES AND THEIR CAUSES...

My child has had two Complex Partial seizures within almost 3 months of one another. Prior to this she has been an extremely healthy child with one ear ache and 2 episodes of pink eye. She threw up for the first time in her life 1 week before her first one but they said that was unrelated... Both episodes have been almost identical. Up late playing with friends and by late I mean we got to bed 30 minutes after normal bed time. Then up early - 1 hour ahead of normal wake up. Seems normal for first 15 minutes that we're awake and than bam it hits. The first one we had no idea and ended up in the hospital with her being intebated for 1 hour and then extebated and then after being in the ER from 9 - 5 she was up and we stayed overnight for observation. We live near a wonderful children's facility and are now seeking a second opinion to exhaust all avenues while we continue on with prescribed treatment. 5ml of Trileptal 2 times daily and Diastat as rescue med used along with calling 911 to go to Children's facility if at home or closest hospital if not... All CT's, Bloodwork, Urine, EEG's, and MRI have been normal. Triggers from both: 1) Up 30 minutes beyond normal bed time 2) High stimulis prior to sleep - playing with friends and playing hand held video games 3) Up 1 hour prior to normal wake up 4) Cough and Complain of throat irritation at base of throat between collar bones 5) Seizure begins - first part repetative swallowing, eyes straight through you and then begin side to side movement, then repetative tics begin - patting, swallowing, trying to verbalize but is nonsense, then right side goes rigid, eyes lock up and to left (1st seizure arrested at hospital - 2nd arrested 4 minutes in with Diastat (thank God for Diastat) and treated further at hospital but no where near as bad as first but we are told if we wouldn't have arrested it with Diastat it would've been worse. We've been told that with normal EEG's if there were a cause due to stimulus, video games, strobe lights of any kind, or sleep disorder it would've shown up on both or one. The throat thing is being explained as coincidence - we're sort of not convinced on that issue. We are scared to death about this but are trying our best to find our 2nd "new normal". Neurologist here seems to think will outgrow at some point. But with normal test results there is nothing they can tell us as a cause. Reading about the causes online has freaked us out and we are trying to remember to look at all avenues with a low key prespective... If anyone has any ideas we'd love to hear them or recommendations for good doctors anywhere in the country. Thanks!