epileptics dating epileptics

its been fun studyin myself for years and years through notes,medical papers,books and authors,groups,etc. myself,i found someone else who has epilepsy and she does the same hobbies on research and advocacy as i.its been alot of questionable things between the two of us over the years.i think i found a usefull way to enjoy this life of epilepsy through it all.two epis in the same bedroom lol. only thing is-shes got a 2 year old in another state.custody keeps her at bay mostly but she sure comes here alot. my problem,i have had a couple things keep me at bay.first -while controlled for two years i wouldnt leave a father with lungcancer who passed away last year.kept me home for years.and now im kept at bay by court.arrested for having some wacky seizures in public which i must have went nuts and befriended some police where i ended up with broken bones in a cell when i awoke from my szrs.no phonecalls,no paperwork,no cameras,nothing!its been about a year and a half of continuences,they deny any seizures i may have had on foot while walking to a trolly to get to an ER one day.they cover things up so well that ill be here forever if something isnt done in this town of rotten apples. besides letting the lawyer handle things,what else would i do besides updates on news articles,calling congress, and feeling like an idiot while in other chats and folks think im nuts? any thoughts would help greatly. ty bob