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my daughter and school

Mon, 10/30/2006 - 23:06
i have a few concerns with the school my 6 year old goes to.she developed epilepsy a year ago and we have now started treating it about a month and ahalf ago.Anyways when i told the teacher about it she acted like she was scared and now i am having problems with my daughter not wanting to do her work at least thats what the teacher says and when i went to do a follow up on how she was doing in school the teacher said that she is so behind and that in different words she shouldn't be in grade one.I found out from my daughter that the teacher yells at her then puts her in the hall.The teacher told me that she had enough and can't deal with her anymore.My daughter seizers have gotten better but not totally gone yet but the wierd thing is when she comes home with homework i would tell her that its time to do it and she gets right to it.I feel that she is doing well but the teacher thinks different.Do you think that the teacher has a problem with her epilepsy?She doesn't know anything about epilepsy either though.Any advise please

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Re: my daughter and school

Submitted by Cathy_C on Tue, 2006-10-31 - 07:50
That is a big problem. November is the month of Epilepsy Awareness. So many people out there don't understand Epilepsy so they are frightened by it. I live in Maine and have been in touch with our Senator and Govenor here to get the Awareness out there. The teachers need to be educated about epilepsy and also the other students. There are many employers who won't hire people because they are afraid of epilepsy because they aren't educated on the hidded disability. I am now working on being an advocate for the Epilepsy Foundation so I can get out there and tell them the story of my life and my ups & downs having to live with epilepsy since 16yrs old in a world that doesn't have a clue what we have to go through. Good luck with your daughter. Get some pamplets on epilepsy from your Neurologist to give to her teacher and explain what the teacher should do if she see her going into a seizure. Depending on how friendly the other students are, the teacher may want to explain your daughters seizures and let them know it is just something she has to live with and it isn't anything to be afraid of. Let them know every one has health problems and this just happen to be something she has and has to take medication for and that the medication sometimes doesn't work and she may have a spell. It will ease a lot of stress off your daughter knowing that the students have been talked to abou it, and also that the teacher isn't going to treat her any differently just because of her seizures. This is just a little something you can try or not. But these are things I will be talking about when my advocacy work starts up. I just had my Right Temporal Lobe Surgery 2 1/2 wks ago and I plan on educating as many people on this subject as I can the rest of my life. God Bless you and good luck to you and your little girl. Cathy

Re: my daughter and school

Submitted by angel_lts on Tue, 2006-10-31 - 08:41
First is your daughter understanding everything with her school work? Or do you feel you are reteaching her when she gets home? Call your Epilepsy Foundation in your area. Get brochures on epilepsy and videos that may help the teacher feel a bit better. You personally should go in and talk with her and give her a run down of your daughters seizures. We always have fear when we are introduced to something new. But that fear will go away in time when she gains some knowledge. SHare your knowledge with her, to help her fears to go away. THen possible your daughter will feel a bit better about her teacher too. take care Lisa http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/epilepsyapproach/

Re: Re: my daughter and school

Submitted by scaredmom on Wed, 2006-11-01 - 20:36
Thanks for all your advise i did go to the teacher and talk to her about it all and i told her that if she had anymore questions about it to let me know and she did a few times then nothing.And as for my daughter she does remeber what she learned i just personally think that the teacher has a problem with her because i asked her to watch her carefully for awhile till the medicine starts to work.It became a big problem for the teacher.I don't think that she should be loosing her patients with my daughter i think that she should be working with us to try and make it easier on her

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