Left Temporal Lobe Surgery next week

My LTL was almost six years ago.  Seems like a lifetime ago on one hand, and yet a very short time ago on the other.  I consider it to be a resounding success even though I still take medication and have had a handful of seizures since.  It's a dramatic difference from how things were before and I am eternally grateful to the awesome neurosurgeon I had.

Prior to surgery I had managed to make contact with two individuals who had the same surgery by the same surgeon.  One individual in particular shared his story with me, gave me some good advice for my hospital stay and the early days at home.  He was kind enough to check up on me after the fact, encourage me when I needed it and continue to answer the questions that arose.  I realize your husband doesn't have time to connect with someone before the fact, but perhaps he could consider it when he goes for his post-op checkup.  The hospital may have people who are willing to share their experiences with people currently undergoing/recovering from surgery.

I hope all goes well for your husband.  

It probably would be good for you to know that it's not uncommon for someone to have short term memory issues after a left temporal lobectomy.  It is temporary, but can be disturbing when you're going through it.

Something that was recommended to me by my pharmacist was arnica gel.  It's a homeopathic ointment and not very expensive.  It is useful for helping get rid of bruises more quickly.  I didn't have it on hand immediately, but bought it when she recommended it to me.  It was also useful for somewhat numbing the incision site when I was trying to sleep.

 Again, good luck!