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throwing out the parental lifeline :)

Thu, 10/15/2015 - 16:47

Hi, my son had his first seizure at 6 months of age. It was chalked up to a febrile seizure and we moved on. When he was 11 months old, he had a cluster of seizures that resulted in us being medevaced from our small island town to a larger area hospital. His EEG came back normal and after 24 hours of observation we were sent to an area hotel to await follow up appointments. In the middle of the night my son had another seizure and we called an ambulance and ended up back in the Pediatric ICU. At this time, an MRI was also done and came back normal. We were advised to start medication and given emergency medication to ease our minds for our long flights home.  We started  him on Keppra and hated it. Hated it. After returning home and meeting with our clinic, we decided to wean him off medication. He began having seizures monthly, then weekly and finally we put him back on medication and decided to see a specialist from a larger hospital that was visiting our town. He was diagnosed with epilepsy on September 3, 2014 and we thought that was the start of a normal routine. We can treat epilepsy right? Wrong. We are now 13 months after our initial diagnosis and currently on FOUR antiepileptic drugs that do not control his seizure. By all outward appearances, he is a healthy,happy boy. We have not seen the dreaded side effects, cognitively he is excelling, developmental and speech are right on track, behavior is under control but we still have no seizure control.  We are now weaning him off of Keppra, and Trileptal and trying a regimen of Depakote and Zonisamide. We have since the original diagnosis had two more EEG's which did show seizure activity and we now have an MRI, PET scan and video EEG monitoring scheduled. The possibility of surgery has been brought up by our neurologist as well now and I am terrified. Terrified. I am looking for success stories, personal struggles and positive support so I can give my poor husband  break with the what if questions. Thanks all!

 

Comments

great

Submitted by just_joe on Mon, 2015-10-19 - 18:59
great

How true it is. I am speaking

Submitted by just_joe on Mon, 2015-10-19 - 18:59
How true it is. I am speaking from a person who has had epilepsy for years point of view. There are many people who grow out of epilepsy. It happens daily. I also know that there are other procedures that can help. I know that surgery is also an option. Medications can control a persons seizures. I myself went 3+ years without a seizure. Doc and I were talking about weaning me off the meds. But then I had a seizure. All seizure medications work. A medication that works for one person may not for the  next. The dosage may be too high or too low. Too much medication is just as bad as too little.With the advances of technology today many different things can be done.Amy Jo is speaking from a mothers point of view. I love mothers. They are always wanting the best for their kids. I wouldn't be here today if it weren't for a mothers prayer.You may become a very virtuous person because I know what I went thru and what it did to Mom.I will also tell you I do know there are people with epilepsy that have been seizure free for many years. My cousin is one of them. They were weaning her off meds and she had a seizure. They went back up the a level that they had just dropped hers to and stayed there. She has been seizure free for many years. She is just like the person next door. Has a wonderful family, drives, goes to exercise classes weekly, has her own business and drives her brother and sister crazy. So yes MISS a person can grow out of epilepsy. get complete control but still be on meds or be like me getting the best control I will ever have but still have a seizure lasting a few seconds now and then. But we are all living in a world that isn't perfect.I just want you to be a person that questionsIf you like the neurologist and he has been working with your child and answering your questions by all means keep a good relationship with him. I got more answers to my questions in a phone call that way. When you have a visit with  the neurologist always ask questions. If the medication is 2 times a day those times need to be 12 hours apart. That way the therapeutic levels don't drop far enough to cause a break thru seizure.To tell you what can happen. As a teen most of my seizures were focal motor seizures. Today focal seizures look like an absence seizure. The person look like they are daydreaming. But my right hand would start to rise up. Once shoulder level I went into a convulsion. They weren't pretty and the asphalt would get dented ever now and then. (I was hard headed). After I was 20 the seizures changes some. Today the only seizures I have are focal seizures affecting my right hand. It feels weird or fingers are kind of numb. They last a few seconds. I know what's going on around me and can do everything after those few seconds. In other words I haven't had a convulsion since 1970. So relax. Do your self favor and it will help him and you and this site is the best place to start. Go to the help section. start with triggers. But also go to the M Epilepsy Diary. Watch the video and set one up. There are things to load such as his medications and types of seizures. But watch the video. Use the diary, Give his neurologist permission to bring it up and by doing that his neurologist can look at all the info in it and brig up the graphs. That alone could help with different medications, graphs and other procedures that might help him get your son seizure free.I do hope this helps and he does get seizure freeJoe

No Amy JoI am not telling you

Submitted by just_joe on Tue, 2015-10-20 - 18:41
No Amy JoI am not telling you to not push for more control. I am not telling you you can't get better control. But I am saying is to work with the neurologist and ask questions. I am saying that there are people that even on 1 medication it doesn't always stop all seizures. I am saying that there are some people where surgery is not an option. I am saying many different things. By all means I do want their kids and yours to be seizure free. I get in drug studies for newer meds with fewer side effects just for that reason. I do know what it was like taking enough phenobarb in one day to put the average man to sleep for 24 hours. Add that to the Dilantin and tegratol and you have one big cocktail.In other words Amy Jo I want people to know this world isn't perfect but with work and questioning it can get a little closer. Do you question m facts?

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