My 20 month old is having siezures....need advice

my twenty month old daughter began to have the type of siezure where the head is dropped forward, arms flung out, eyes rolling, and hitting the floor like a lead weight. we went to the hospital 4 days ago, and before we were even taken in she had had about 10. once inside, she had about another 10, and after blood work and urine samples, i was told that she had a viral infection and that it should stop once her fever was under control(which it already was). now, after two more trips to the hospital and about 10+ of these a day, i still have no answers. the first night we came home from the hospital she had one where she remained unconcious for about 20 seconds and was groggy when she came out of it, but since that one she comes to usually by the time she hits the floor. my husband and myself are beside ourselves with worry. this traumatizes me horribly every time i watch her eyes roll back and her thump to the floor, then begin crying. i am supposed to be seeing about a eeg tomorrow, but i find it very scary that two hospitals, one specializing in children, would send me home with her doing this over ten times a day and not want to test her further. when she was 16months old she suffered a siezure where she was unconcious and then stopped breathing for in total probably 3to 4 minutes, i dont remember exactly because i have never been so scared in my life. and that was brought on by an ear infection and fever. she hasnt had a fever in three days, and has nothing else wrong with her, yet she continues this daily. i find myself terrified of letting her go further then i can reach her for fear of seeing her fall on her face anymore(more than once now she has hit her face off furniture and has been left with big blue goose eggs. i find myself trembling, fearing when the next one will happen. i was hoping that i could find some parents whose children suffer the same symptoms as mine does. i would love to hear any suggestions that any parents have taught themselves to cope with this, or anything at all to do with this. thank u so much thegrahamsx5@aol.com