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Affection & Intimacy with Epilepsy
Mon, 11/02/2009 - 02:35Comments
Re: Affection & Intimacy with Epilepsy
Submitted by 3Hours2Live on Tue, 2010-01-05 - 06:10
Re: Affection & Intimacy with Epilepsy
Submitted by Shakey Mom on Tue, 2010-01-05 - 11:15
Good morning.
I am a 33 year old woman and I am soo in love with my husband, but when it comes to intimacy I'm just not interested at all. I would rather wash dishes than be intimate.
I take a high dosage of two AEDs 2x day and I have no doubt this is the reason for the low sex drive.
Everyone is built different, but unfortunately I do not see my situation changing anytime soon.
Best of luck to the both of you!!
Good morning.
I am a 33 year old woman and I am soo in love with my husband, but when it comes to intimacy I'm just not interested at all. I would rather wash dishes than be intimate.
I take a high dosage of two AEDs 2x day and I have no doubt this is the reason for the low sex drive.
Everyone is built different, but unfortunately I do not see my situation changing anytime soon.
Best of luck to the both of you!!
Re: Affection & Intimacy with Epilepsy
Submitted by tiredinthedarkness on Wed, 2010-09-08 - 15:16
I think it is the meds. my partner did not even realise due to memory problems that he was more sexed before certain new drugs and now we have to make a conscious effort to have 'together time' once a week; although this is hard for partners of epileptics who are not experiencin any lack of drive, we have to remember that together with our love occassionally is far better than any alternative and certainly better than not at all!! keep on talking and being caring & creative. also, remember he may completely be unaware of how he's hurting you - i explained things to my partner (night seizures, very volatile and active - pulling things off the wall and jumping out of windows) and he made everything into 'his problems' and was super cold (not like who i first dated) eventually he changed meds and voila - super affectionate sweetheart back and sex once a week (still by date though, lol). good luck and use this forum to provide support - epilepsy is affecting you as well but it could work out great despite his illness x x x