Unusual Spells and Diagnostic Woes

Hi, I am new to this community, and going through some diagnosis woes. For some time now, I have been having unusual spells that involve staring, deja vu/depersonalized type symptoms, complex vision-like episodes, loss of awareness and visual reality, and eventually some odd psychosis symptoms that resolve themselves rather quickly. I am not a drug user, and I have seen psychiatrists who tell me that I do not fit the pattern of a psychiatric illness. One psychiatrist recently suggested that I may have a partial seizure disorder (in fact diagnosing me with this illness), and then sent me to a neurologist. I just got back from my appointment with the neurologist today, and I must say that I was rather less than satisfied with the appointment. I have had an EEG done before, and I had one of my spells during the flashing lights portion of the test (and the same cycle of odd psych type symptoms that resolve themselves quickly). The neurologist resident that I saw today was rude and disrespectful, rude to a family member I brought with me to the appointment, accused me of acting up during my illness, and laughed at me while his boss did a neurological exam. He walked in to see me, didn't shake my hand or look me in the eye, sat at his computer, and finally grunted at me saying, "So did you have another odd spell?" His boss was the absolute opposite of his behavior. I must mention that I was in the hospital in April, and the doctor's there had assured my family that they had an answer as to why I was having my spells (they were not psychiatric in origin). One family members swears that a neurologist told her this. The resident I saw today said, that must have been a mistake and that the psychiatrists don't know their jobs, or something like that. He said the EEG was normal, yet the psychiatrists said it was not. He referred me for a long test, where they are going to take me off of my anti-seizure meds, and do an EEG while I stay in the epilepsy monitoring unit. I was also referred to Cleveland Clinic by one of the psychiatrists to see a specialist in epilepsy there. I am unsure as to what I should do? I am a rational person, working on a degree in computer science and marketing. I do not have a lot of unusual ideas, and I can always tell that the hallucinations are not real (in fact the ones that I have are things from my memory, things people have said to me that sound distorted and strange, or pictures I have seen of the BVM or Jesus). I do not have psychosis all the time, in fact only after a spell. As I said above, the weird psychosis symptoms resolve themselves on their own or with very little medicine within a few days. The resident said that if I was hallucinating with epilepsy, I would hear a train-like noise, not hear voices or see flashing lights. It is hard for me to accept that I have a psychotic illness, and I am just plain confused. Thank-you for taking the time to read this, I know it was long. Just wanted to get some knowledge from this community on my difficulties with diagnosis. Regards, Caleb