Abnormalities on EEG but no epilepsy "markers"?

Hi, I'm a 32 year old male and formerly in good health (was excellent until this all started a few years ago). It began with extreme exhaustion that was constant and unrelenting. Then it seemed like my mind progressively became worse. My word-retrieval, ability to retain information, comprehension, articulation, speech, planning, MEMORY, etc has become worse and worse. I tried to "push through it" for a couple years but I started falling asleep while I was driving and I was under-performing in every area of my life. My sleep hygiene was excellent, I ate very healthy, and I exercised daily. After blood work, sleep test, and many other tests I was diagnosed with chronic fatigue syndrome (I can't remember what it's called now). I eventually saw a neurologist (I can barely remember from the CFS diagnosis to the neurologist right now if that's any indication of my memory...does anyone else get this???). At the appointment the Dr. asked if I had any staring spells or seemed "out of it" and I said no, but my wife said yes! Apparently I do this often but I don't realize it. They don't last long, though. And then there's a more general kind of thing my wife described where she's talking to me and she can tell that I'm not understanding anything she's telling me, despite the simplicity of the subject. I have to say, though, the memory is what I really worry about. I've had to suspend my business I own mostly due to my memory becoming worse (and also general diminished cognitive functioning- no focus, concentration). So I had an EEG and the results were "abnormal". Below: "Intermittent frontotemporal theta slowing with sharply contoured theta waves more prominent on the left is noted throughout the recording. These changes are subtle without generalization or build-up. IMPRESSION: Abnormal EEG secondary to bilateral frontotemporal slowing and sharp waves. CLINICAL INTERPRETATION: This EEG is suggestive of bilateral frontotemporal dysfunction and subtle potential seizure focus, more prominent on the left. Clinical correlation with symptoms is recommended." When I saw the neurologist for the follow-up, he said I was "seizure prone"? This was just an hour long test that none of us expected to see anything on. I was referred to a different neurologist (epileptologist?). The new Dr. doesn't believe it's epilepsy, but that was only based on our 30 minute meeting and him looking over the earlier EEG. On a side note, how often do you all run into these neurologists that think they're a god? This guy's general attitude...Anyway, I am currently in the hospital (while I'm writing this) on my 2nd day of my video EEG. The Dr. stopped by this morning and said they are seeing abnormalities- the slowing of 2 of my brain waves, he didn't specify which. BUT, they're "non-specific". When I pressed him for an answer, he became offended, and repeated himself...no epileptic markers and non-specific. I found this website by googling my symptoms. And what do you know...I mirror a lot of the symptoms I've read here. I'll be the first to admit, I may not be epileptic. It's just gotten to the point that I would actually be HAPPY to get that diagnosis. I never thought I'd say that. I am not a Dr. after all, so he could be correct. I just don't think it's a coincidence that I read the forums on here and see myself EXACTLY, not just a little, sort of, kinda related. I mean exact. The memory, fatigue, deja vu, etc. The first neurologist mentioned temporal lobe epilepsy as a possibility. I've since read that people have had multiple EEGs with no result, only to have it later on. All I know is that this is NOT normal and I am not imagining this. While I'm here, what questions should I ask the Dr? I don't have much experience with this, obviously. I ask because I'm just sitting here. My first EEG had the strobe test and some other things. I'm literally just sitting here becoming a piece of hospital furniture...why isn't he trying to induce a seizure or something? I'm confused. Thanks in advance for any responses. Jesse