Doctors Open Enough?

Yes, I've had epilepsy most of my adult life. And yes, I've gone from one prescription to another. Had surgery. Been a participant in umpteen social service discussion groups. Even had articles published. However, I remain frustrated that most neurologists (at least the top-notch ones I've seen in New York City) aren't all that realistic with us when they prescribe pills, whether they're long-standing drugs or ones just being released. Is it because some of the "patient warnings" or "could happen" facts about the pills might just scare us off? Or are neurologists and epileptologists afraid that we'll suddenly decide to stop taking the drugs they've determined are perfect for us? That, of course, could put them into a legal battle they'd rather avoid. Do you come right out with it and ask your doctors what you can expect your pills to do, as well as what negative possibilities there are? If you don't, you should. Let's hear how you handle this matter. --George