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6 year old son w/epilepsy & behavior problems

Mon, 06/28/2004 - 19:34
This is my first time on any sort of discussion format...but I need to talk to other parents of children w/epilepsy. My son had his first seizure about 3 years ago and up until this past year they were always during the waking hours. He is now having them during the daytime and more frequently. His medication has been uped significantly and we are having so many behavioral problems with him. I don't know what is related to epilepsy and what is just "him," I am also having such a difficult time letting him out of my sight, as I worry about him having a seizure when he is in a dangerous spot such as climbing or swimming and he is such an active boy. I would really appreciate hearing from a parent in a similiar situation. Thank you.

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RE: 6 year old son w/epilepsy & behavior problems

Submitted by jmmjmm1 on Sun, 2005-05-22 - 11:16

Be sure to recognize that he is a kid first... and that he has epilepsy second.  And also, the behavioral changes you speak of could not only could result from medication, but they could actually be a form of seizure, perhaps the absence type, for example, or another type, the type with auras.  And send him to a summer camp if you are having trouble letting him do some KIDDY activities.  It will definitly give you all a break from one another and there are those who are designed for kids with special needs-- I work for one in LA for kids with E and there is a Camp Roundup section in Epilepsy USA, also a section about all the camps in the US on epilepsyfoundation.org online.  Check it out and good luck!  All will work out, just gotta grow with him. 

 

Take care!  Jamie

Be sure to recognize that he is a kid first... and that he has epilepsy second.  And also, the behavioral changes you speak of could not only could result from medication, but they could actually be a form of seizure, perhaps the absence type, for example, or another type, the type with auras.  And send him to a summer camp if you are having trouble letting him do some KIDDY activities.  It will definitly give you all a break from one another and there are those who are designed for kids with special needs-- I work for one in LA for kids with E and there is a Camp Roundup section in Epilepsy USA, also a section about all the camps in the US on epilepsyfoundation.org online.  Check it out and good luck!  All will work out, just gotta grow with him. 

 

Take care!  Jamie

RE: 11 yr. old w/epilepsy & behavior problems

Submitted by grtchf on Sun, 2005-05-22 - 11:42

My daughter is 11 and was diagnosed when she was  5 1/2 yrs. old.  She went undiagnosed for the first 2 yrs., until she had a major seizure which required an ambulance and a trip to the ER.  In any event she is also displaying behavior problems, lack of concentration, difficulty particularly with spelling, and reading.  However, her grades in general are ok.  I'm beginning to wonder how much is related to the epilepsy/medication, and how much is manipulation.  She was diagnosed with atonic clonic seizures.  She is currently taking depakote 250mg 2x/day and lamictal 3x/day (can't think of the exact amount right this minute, sorry). 

It's such an uphill battle to get her to focus on chores, school, and homework.  She also experiences migraines and stomach sickness.  I've taken her to the doctors numerous times to rule out any problems from the lamictal to ulcers, tumors, you name it.  So far everything has come back normal. 

I'm thinking of changing her ped neuro too.  I did get a second opinion a couple years back and that was a horrible experience, so I'm reluctant to try again.  The second opinion came back that she didn't have epilepsy and we could stop all medications immediately.  Thank God for mothers intuition, I didn't follow that advise!!  I can't imagine just stopping her meds let alone continuing to allow my daughter to be under her care.  Sorry I'm babbling her it still makes me angry to this day when I think about that event. 

Anyway, I'm looking for help and if there's anyone out there that is going through this and has some advise to share I would love to hear from you too.   I would love any and all advise!

Thank You,

Lisa

 

My daughter is 11 and was diagnosed when she was  5 1/2 yrs. old.  She went undiagnosed for the first 2 yrs., until she had a major seizure which required an ambulance and a trip to the ER.  In any event she is also displaying behavior problems, lack of concentration, difficulty particularly with spelling, and reading.  However, her grades in general are ok.  I'm beginning to wonder how much is related to the epilepsy/medication, and how much is manipulation.  She was diagnosed with atonic clonic seizures.  She is currently taking depakote 250mg 2x/day and lamictal 3x/day (can't think of the exact amount right this minute, sorry). 

It's such an uphill battle to get her to focus on chores, school, and homework.  She also experiences migraines and stomach sickness.  I've taken her to the doctors numerous times to rule out any problems from the lamictal to ulcers, tumors, you name it.  So far everything has come back normal. 

I'm thinking of changing her ped neuro too.  I did get a second opinion a couple years back and that was a horrible experience, so I'm reluctant to try again.  The second opinion came back that she didn't have epilepsy and we could stop all medications immediately.  Thank God for mothers intuition, I didn't follow that advise!!  I can't imagine just stopping her meds let alone continuing to allow my daughter to be under her care.  Sorry I'm babbling her it still makes me angry to this day when I think about that event. 

Anyway, I'm looking for help and if there's anyone out there that is going through this and has some advise to share I would love to hear from you too.   I would love any and all advise!

Thank You,

Lisa

 

My e-mail is Bonnie_Parker @

Submitted by thebonnis on Thu, 2006-03-02 - 09:13
My e-mail is Bonnie_Parker @ hotmail.com. I would appreciate hearing from you & others who replied to this regarding behavioral issues in their children with epilepsy. My daughter is 16 months old, & was diagnosed with partial secondarily generalized epilepsy when she was a month & a half old. She is extraordinarily active, and has been referred to as "hyperactive" by First Steps, an early intervention service available in Indiana. I am falling into the "parents-held-hostage" trap; it isn't that I'm a lazy mother, but it seems we have a hard time going anywhere. She must run around, touch everything, climb on everything... then begin hitting me in the face--or herself in the face--as well as head banging, throwing her body to the ground, and biting herself. These behaviors are not the result of attention-seeking or due to a lack of boundaries & discipline. But I truly feel at a loss. She was on Trileptal from the time she was 1.5 months old until today (March 2nd). The pediatric neurologist at Riley (Dr. Sokol) agreed that the Trileptal could be causing or exacerbating the hyperactive & overly-aggressive behaviors, and decided to (slowly) switch her from Trileptal to Keppra. Please, anyone, e-mail me. It would be wonderful to hear from others in a similar situation. There has to be a way to make sense of it all. Here are 2 articles at Epilepsy.com that I recently found to be enlightening: Dealing with Behavior Problems: http://www.epilepsy.com/articles/ar_1064604275.html Influence of Seizure Types: http://professionals.epilepsy.com/page/behavioral_influence.html

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