Scared for my fiance, cbd questions

My fiancé has epilepsy and since turning 31 has been having more seizures he had gone 13 years without a seizure and recently had two in a month I'm very worried about him and he is scared as well he absolutely detested the medication when he was younger his mother actually took him off of it because it turned him into a zombie he would not be able to work if he was on that medicine I have fibromyalgia and PTSD and I can't work he is our Breadwinner in the home he enjoys working I stay home and take care of the family and work part-time we are interested in CBD oil we've both been taking a few drops every day even though I know a bunch of the country it's still illegal it has worked wonders for anxiety and he says he can definitely feel the difference and seeing as he does not have the money to pay for medications or the ability to use them because of how much of a zombie they turn it into this medication would be a savior for us however we have no idea how much you supposed to be taking from what I've read on the internet you should be having 200 milligrams a day if your epileptic but a bottle would only last one or two days if that's the case does anybody have any experience with those who could help me out I really need to find out how much she means and we are definitely making plans to move somewhere where we can get this prescribed we're both concerned for his life