My Story - Please Help if You Can????

I'm worried and confused and would like to hear some thoughts from people who have experienced what I have. To make this readable and not too long I will summarize my experience: - 7/8/05 - I had a grand mal seizure in the grocery store. This was my first seizure at the age of 28. The cause was unknown but I ended up waking up in an ambulance with a golf ball sized bruise on my head and a cracked skull. - 7/12/05 - Released from the hospital. The nuros were unsure if I passed out and the impact caused the seizure or I had the seizure and then passed out and hit my head. Because I had an arua, that I never experienced before, they believe it was the later. They prescribed me Dialantin (400mg) and I have been taking it for 12 mos with out any side effects. - 9/15/06 - Couldn't drive for three months so I quit my job because the commute was to much to endour being on a bus four hours a day. Not a problem though because my job was not a good fit for me and I found something closer to home. Just to give you an example...One day I was talking to my boss, at the old job, about motorcycles. I don't really have much interest in motorcycles but that's what he was into and I had trouble finding things to talk to him about that were not related work. It was a job where relationships meant everything in terms of promotions, so I tried to be friendly with him on a business and personal level. Now here's the good (or sad) part...a quote from him "To bad you can't ride a motorcycle because you might have one of those fits". I quit two days later. -10/2/06 - Haven't had any more seizures at this point. I was not embarrassed or ashamed of what happed, so any one who knew me new the story. I started to hear many stories about family members of their's or people they knew that had a seizure and never had one again. Being optimistic, I decided to put myself in this category and went back to living the way I lived before this ever happened...and this included some occasional drinking. Nothing constant but certainly at times too much. Meeting with Co-workers at the bar, bachelor’s party in Vegas, trip to Mexico, hanging out with childhood and college friends. The medicine would make me more hung-over than I used to get but, I hadn’t had anymore seizures. -03/01/06 - Because of the amount of time I spend working I had to cut down on the partying. More of a lifestyle change many people make at this time in their lives but for no other reason than that. I realize now that I should not have been drinking at all and I’m an idiot for even considering it. Still no seizures…. Meetings with nuros went well and they told me I would be off the meds in six months. They would ask if I drank and I would say no, even though I had, just because I was enjoying myself and I didn't want to hear someone telling me I couldn't do what I always had the freedom to do. -6/14/06 - I changed insurance companies and saw a new general practitioner. Since I hadn’t any seizures since the first and only one she wanted to take me off the meds. Before she did this requested that I have another EEG and was appalled that my old nuro hadn't given me one since the seizure in July. 6/25/06 - Results came back and show that I have abnormal readings in my right temporal lobe. I have a meeting with a new nuro at the end of July and the only outcomes I can expect are those that I have done through my own research…. Much of which has been done by reading about the experiences of people on this website. This has all been recent and I don't know much. ......Has anyone ever had a similar experience? Any insight or stories to share is appreciated. To give just a little more background...I never had a seizure until I was 28. I did have very bad migraines as a teenager and unfortunately three head injuries (2 skiing and one mountain biking) from the time I was 10 – 21. All three put me in the hospital.