New Here, Worried/Concerned...Please Help : (

Hello all, I'm hoping someone can help me sort out my confusion and worries. My name is Anne, and my sweet, bright, handsome son (about to turn 9 this month) has had quite a strange year (in 2005). He had 3 seizures in about 28 hours back on December 1st and 2nd. Two "focal", and one "tonic clonic" (the whole body one). These took us by complete surprise - there is no history of epilepsy or seizures in our family. He had no fever, nothing had changed in his life that we are aware of. Okay, the reason I am concerned, is that I feel his health is declining, and I feel powerless, helpless, and totally confused. History: *Perfect health til 2005 -- rarely sick, ate really well, etc. *Summer 2005 -- he developed hypertension, resolved after 3 months, we still don't know why (he is not even remotely overweight, very healthy eater). *Fall 2005 -- he became frequently fatigued, irritable, tired all the time. Started looking paler than usual. *December 1st and 2nd -- the seizures. *EEG abnormal -- sharp wave pattern in temporal lobe region. *CT scan -- clear *MRI -- "normal", incidental finding of cyst on/in pineal gland *Official Diagnosis = "Focal Seizures" *Very, very thorough bloodwork reveals everything to be totally normal -- he did test positive for Mono -- not acute, so maybe that explains his fatigue???? But doctor said most people do test positive for Mono, so this is not entirely helpful. Sleeping and eating haven't changed much, yet he is soooo tired all the time. Could he be having seizures at night we are unaware of? Would an overnight EEG be helpful? I am sorry this is so long, I hope someone here can help me or give me some insight or guidance. I feel like my son's health is deteriorating and NO ONE has ANY anwers! : ( Thank you so much to anyone who can offer any advice... Warm Regards, Anne