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Share? Share a memorable Thanksgiving

Wed, 11/23/2005 - 21:55
I am an emigrant and raised primarily by my aunt/uncle on a huge farm that fed us. If we didn't raise it? We didn't eat it. We're from Sweden where there wereb't any turkeys or Thanksgiving for that matter. Yet we studied Thanksgiving in school and always the centerpiece of discussion was turkey. We didn't have turkeys on our farm which meant we always had several chickens for Thanksgiving dinner. Never turkey. Each Thanksgiving I was so disappointed, I'd never tasted turkey and always felt disappointed every single Thanksgiving - with chicken. I confided in my older male cousin my disappointment. That Thanksgiving he went hunting and shot a wild turkey on the plains of Kansas. I was 10 years old when I saw the large, wonderful smelling turkey set on the table instead of chicken. I don't think it was the turkey that made me feel cuddly and loved. It was the fact that my cousin cared enough about me to satisfy a need, dream that I'd had. An American turkey. It's one of my treasured Thanksgiving memories. Does anyone else have a treasured Thanksgiving memory to share? I'd love to hear it. Gretchen

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Re: Share? Share a memorable Thanksgiving

Submitted by txrhb1 on Wed, 2005-11-23 - 22:47
What a beautiful story Gretchen. My favorite Thanksgiving memory is the year we finally got all of our kids together for the first time at Thanksgiving. My 6 oldest kids are "foster" kids, but all brothers and sisters. They all grew up in different homes, so had not been together for several years, until they all came to live with us finally. That first year, when we were all together - what a blessing !!! And now, each year, we seem to add a new granchild to the group. I absolutely adore Thanksgiving. thanks for sharing that with us Gretchen !!! ((( hugs ))), Barbie Never doubt that a small, group of thoughtful, committed citizens can change the world. Indeed, it is the only thing that ever has. - Margaret Mead

Re: Re: Share? Share a memorable Thanksgiving

Submitted by gretchen1 on Wed, 2005-11-23 - 22:55
Oh gosh Barbie - I shed tears. What an absolutely beautiful story. How special that must have been I was an emergency foster parent. My problem was? I wound up adopting them. EEEKKKSSS. And THAT is why I have 11 children. But truly that was just touching. YOU are such a special person. OKAY - there has to be more treasured stories. I want/need to hear them. Gretchen

Re: Share? Share a memorable Thanksgiving

Submitted by spiz on Wed, 2005-11-23 - 23:20
My favorite T-giving memory is of the first Thanksgiving dinner I cooked all by myself. It was the first Thankgiving after I was married and it meant alot to me to show my husband I could do this. We invited his mother and her husband, so the pressure was on....but I was sure I could do this without any help. Did I mention I could burn water? I followed the directions on thawing the turkey. The next day, I took it out of the refrigerator, buttered it and stuck it in the oven. I had decided to make the dinner rolls myself...never had made any before, but how hard could that be? I swear I followed the directions! Had the bird in the oven, the dough rising....time for veggies. Easy! Peeled potatoes and got them going, put peas on. Remembered I needed to put salt in the potatoes. Fixed the stuffing and set it aside. I had fixed the desserts the day before. Everything was on schedule! Set the table really nice and then went to go get myself ready. I wanted to look my best. I took the turkey out of the oven when the timer went off. Swithched it to a pretty platter. Put the dinner rolls in the oven. Mashed the potatoes. Took the peas off and put the two in matching serving bowls. Reheated the stuffing while making gravy. Had the desserts lined up nice and pretty. I took the rolls out of the oven...all nice and golden. There...how hard was that? Everyone sat down, everyone starving! My husband cuts into the turkey. Guess what is half froze? And how was I to know the turkey had cavities with turkey parts stuffed in them? The potatoes being lumpy wasn't so bad...but they were bland. It seems I had put the salt in the peas instead of the potatoes. So that knocked out those two veggies. And the rolls? Harder than any brick! Everything else was good though. Of course, I cried and my husband was mad. But, you know what? It has become everyone's favorite Thanksgiving to remember. Every Thanksgiving, it is the memory brought up...it hasn't missed a year. And we all laugh. Good can come from bad and tears can evolve into laughter. Have a happy Thanksgiving everyone!!!! Smiles! -Spiz

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