My fiancé and I are planning on getting married this coming May.
In the last year and a half, he’s had three seizures. The most recent being 3 nights ago. All his seizures have occurred while sleeping and are grand mal. All test thus far have come back completely normal. So for now, his neurologist just increase his keppra.
My parents are extremely concerned about the financial burden of medical cost if we are to get married. Right now, he has state insurance but he wouldn’t be eligible for it after we get married because I make to much money.
My parents think we should have the big wedding, I change my last name BUT we don’t actually submit a marriage license. This would insure he still got his state insurance and other state benefits if need be.
I’m really conflicted if we should do this and how to mention this to my fiancé. Any advice is greatly appreciated