Medication Withdrawal Questions

Hi there! I've got a few questions about people who have JME and their experiences with AEDs, more specifically, with medication withdrawal. A bit of background: I was diagnosed with epilepsy at the age of 16, six years ago. I had a random tonic-clonic seizure, and we also believe that I probably had seizures prior to the one we actually saw. My seizures were tonic-clonic seizures. I was treated with Clobazam for 6 months unsuccessfully. The situation was weird, as my seizures occurred once a month and were always either right before or during my period. After meeting with a new neurologist, I began taking Lamotrigine (Lamictal) and have been seizure-free since (with the exception of a strange stiffening of my muscles when I accidentally overdosed on Tylenol after getting my molars removed - I miscalculated the time between doses). I do not believe that was related to my epilepsy at all. After the Lamotrigine was deemed effective, my neurologist tried to ween me off of the Clobazam, but was having slight myoclonic jerks and was put back on the Clobazam. I recently saw a new neurologist who said that the pace at which they tried to remove the Clobazam was too quick and was likely the reason it didn't work. I also have a family history of epilepsy, including my uncle (who had the exact same thing, a random seizure at 16 and then was successfully taken off of his medications 40 years ago), brother (absence seizures as a baby), and two cousins. Earlier this year I had two EEGs, one normal and one sleep deprived and both came our perfectly clear (yay), and my neurologist said that she thinks that I am clear, and am ready to ween off of the medications. I have some trust issues with neurologists, and I am obviously scared about starting this process. Ever since I was diagnosed, doctors have been saying that I would eventually be able to go off my medications and that it was temporary, but I am naturally still very hesitant. I still have the occasional jerk, but a neurologist also told me that was normal if it wasn't frequent, which it isn't. I was wondering if anyone had experiences with the mix of these medications? I was also wondering if anyone had any experience with JME remission or successful (or failed) results of medication withdrawal? Any answers or advice would be very helpful to me in making this decision! Thank you!