My boyfriend of almost t years is 36. Up till this past summer as far as we know he has never had seizures before. Was diagnosed with epilepsy but don't recall a specific one. He doesn't want to take his meds and actually never went to his doctor for a refill. He hasn't been on meds since the initial first month and I know him he will find every excuse he can to not. How do I help him when it comes to this, when he has a seizure, and if he continues to not take medication for them when do I call 911 if needed?