Greetings From  Blessing.

My name is Blessing from Republic of Sudan. Presently in Dakar Senegal 24 years of age.

I am so decided to extend my felicitations to you. Presently i can not really specify what prompted my drive to write but i did have the mind that you could be a nice person. I have the interest to meet people from out side my continent and felicitate. It is my believe that there are nice people out there who can appreciate the values of friendship. Personal I might not be very beautiful physically like most ladies in your country but I think I have the beauty of the mind, which is more valuable to me.

Please write me if you can. I am single and focus. I wouldn’t say i am good but will leave that to you to find out with time. As allowing others to access you is a humble act...Hope to receive a message from you. It will be very much appreciated getting to know you much better and share our experience and good wills about our respective continents.

I will send you my photo in my next reply. I will appreciate as well if you send yours to me in your next mail. With due respect i ask, do tell me some briefs about you. Your love life, what you do appreciate in a woman in general and your dislikes. Lest I forget I am not a white lady rather simply colored and wish you do not mind as I have the concept that we all are the same irrespective of our colors. The inner person to me is most important, friendships to me is a right of all humans and if properly inclined could add to once happiness.

My greetings to all your good and loving family were ever you live. Please do write me back soonest I will appreciate from the dept of my heart..You can also write me through my address:  blesingcale@yahoo.in
 
Your friend,
Blessing

I don't think he will lose his job if he has too many seizures. That would be wrongfull dismisal and discrimination. He might negotiate other less dangerous duties with his boss.

As for the idea of going back to dilantin from depakote, it is a tough choice. Did dilantin give him bleeding gums? If so, there might be another trip to a seizure investigation unit to find another medication. The ultimate goal should be seizure freedom with as few medications and side-effects as possible.I realise this letter is getting to you after your son's visit with the neurologist, but I am speaking as a person who has gone from dilatin to depakene to carbamazepine. I have been seizure free for a number of years (I think it's 6). All the best!