Please help me by giving me advice.

My new boyfriend has a seizure straight after intercourse when he climaxes. He tells me it happens every time he climaxes and since his childhood (he is 32 years old now), and that he thinks and believes it is a tantric all over body orgasm.

It clearly is not. He gets thrown off the bed, smacks into furniture, his legs and body shake uncontrollably. Has no control over his body's movements... and looks like he is in pain. A minute later and he can't move... looks dazed and has after shocks/tremours in his body. This means I can't touch him ...

The whole thing is very upsetting for me as I feel helpless. I have asked him to go to the doctors, he won't as he is convinced it is tantric! What can I do as it has put me off getting intimate with him for fear of what will happen.

Any help appreciated.

Kristina