New - Scared of pregnancy when on lamictal...please help me
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I've been diagnosed with epilepsy from the age of 12yrs old, doctors say it was the change in ones hormones that affects you. Now at the age of 24 and on degranol and lamitor Im recently married and my husband would love to have kids and so would I, I've just always had this fear, thinking that because of my epilepsy I wont be able to have kids and makes you infertile and I love the idea of having kids.. my seizures are under control and still get them every few months, I just feel dispondent at times when I think that I might not be able to have kids because of my epilepsy, is it true that women with epilepsy are infertile?
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I started having seizures when I was 8 years old and that has been a long time ago. I may be too old for my comment to count but just in case, I never had any problems getting pregnant and the pregnancies went very well without any problems and had two very healthy children who both have healthy children now. As was mentioned earlier, it is a good idea to make sure your medications are safe to take during your pregnancy. Hope this makes you feel better. Take care!
Hey! My name is Liz and I was diagnosed with epilepsy when I was five years old. I thought for the longest time that I would not be able to have children. I am now 25 years old and have the most beautiful baby boy that you will ever lay your eyes on. There is a lot, however, that you need to consider when you decide to become pregnant. Be sure that the medicine that you are on will not harm you or your baby! When I was pregnant with Carter I was told that the medicine that I was on was fine and would not hurt him. I carried him to term. He seemed very healthy. 36 hours after he was born he started having problems breathing. The medicine had caused him to be born with premature lungs. (I have heard that doctors no longer allow patients to take that medication while pregnant.) He developed respiratory distress syndrome. I had a C-section with him, so he had pneumonia. He was 8 lbs but his lungs were only large enough to support a 5 lb baby. He puntured a hole in one of his lungs. They had to rush him to the NICU (neonatal intensive care unit) at a hospital 3 hours away. He now has asthma. Despite the difficulties we had when he was born he is now an amazingly healthy little boy.
Be sure to discuss this with your neuologist! He or she will be able to direct you to a good medicine. Don't forget about the possibilities of a seizures while you are pregnant. I had two. My doctors decided that they were because of the hormonal imbalances during pregnancy. There are wonderful doctors all over the country that will help your dreams come true.
I do not want this to discourage you from having a bundle of joy of your own. It is so worth it. We are teaching him to call 911 when mommy falls and gets a booboo. That is so important since I have had two seizures with him by myself. He is three now and I would literally die just so that he didn't have to live an ounce of pain! Good luck on this magical journey of your life!
I may have had a few seizures when I was 3 years old. When I came into puberty I started to have my menstral cycle my partial- complex seizures announced themselves monthly. When I was working at a University I met my husband who was working at another University. He was happy if I did or didn't have children. Surprise, surprise, I checked w/ the ob/gyn and my neurologist and found out I could have children. My Neurologist worked at the University I was working at and said think about the responsibilities and stresses. Changing them on a flat location, having your husband wash the baby in case you have a seizure, etc. We thought about the possibilities. I only took Tegretol at that time. I miscarried once. The second time around I had a beautiful baby boy. I did not breast feed because I felt funny giving medication to my baby, this was in the 90's. I had 4 more miscarriages but I was understresses of job, deaths in family, etc., looking back at it now it was appropriate, then I was on three anticonvulsants Tegretol, Klonopin, and Lamictal, I had a healthy little girl 4 years later we moved from the west coast to the east coast. Now one is 16 and the other is 12, both are healthy taking advanced classes in school. They are teenagers and causing grey hair. They are blessings. I've had babysitters when my sz are out of control so someone can drive them places. Some days I wish I had one, because I sometimes cannot think straight but my friends that don't have seizures say the same thing. Raising children is a challenge and you need not only have your husband but others to help even if you do not have seizures. You need someone to talk too or vent w/. You want to do the right thing for you and your child. I had my church, my family, my babysitting crew and my neighbors! It's a crew to raise a child! to support you and your husband. You have no clue on how exhausting it is!