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College and alcohol
Fri, 06/06/2014 - 22:43Hey guys,
so i am 22 years old and in my fourth year of college. Even though it's been four years I still find it hard connecting with people my age especially since I don't drink alcohol. I am too nervous to try drinking because I don't know how it will affect my medication. Same goes for staying up late since a lot of my friends want to pull all nighters which I can't do bc sleep deprivation is a trigger for me. I just have a hard time telling people about why I can't do these things because they don't understand the risks and what it's like to have a seizure. Anyone else have this problem?
Well go connect with your
Submitted by just_joe on Sun, 2014-06-08 - 14:58
Well go connect with your friends. Just because they drink does not mean you have to drink. When I was your age I went to the clubs and danced had fun partied with friends. I might have 1 drink with alcohol all he others would be Shirley Temples (the same drink as others but without alcohol). If htey were having their all nighter I would excuess myself an let tehm know I had a ball but needed to do something like go see Mom or another member of the family and that I would see them again either the next night or some other night that week. I would invite some od them over and yes I would buy some beer or wine to offer them if they came over. If they didn't come over then I used the beer or wine in some of the food I made. You know your triggers and what to avoid if possiable. I also have triggers but I also know that those triggers do not always apply. Kind of like taking meds late can cause break thru seizures the use of CAN is just that. Stress is a big trigger but it has rarely effected me. Sleep deprivation effects many. Even when I was diagnosed I was getting about 5-6 hours of sleep a night. That was when I was a teen. Paper routs paid money and yes those papers had to be delivered before 7am so I could get home and change so I could get to the bus stop before the bus got there. After graduation I worked many jobs which required me to be there before 8 transportation takes time and fixing dinner and other things take time. I would get to bed about 12 so I got about 5-6 hours of sleep a night. Been doing that for over 50 years. I have had a few break thru seizures because of taking my meds later then I was supposed to but once or twice a year ain't bad. .I just have a hard time telling people about why I can't do these things because they don't understand the risks and what it's like to have a seizure To explain what a seizure is simply "All a seizure is is an electrical impulse going off in the brain wrong" plain simple and that is every kind of seizure. Now aks them what they do when their computer freezes? Do they walk away from it? Or do they scan their puter and get things right so it doesn't freeze? Is their computer more important then you? Just put it to them that way and I think you might be finding a few more friends. Oh and some of them might pick you up to go clubing or to the bar to have some fun dancing. They might also take you home and go back to the club. You might be surprised. But that will also depend on you and how you live and deal with epilepsy. I hope this helps Joe