New to site but not to epilepsy; looking for answers

I first started to experience what I refered to as "spells" in my late years of middle school. At first I thought I stood up too fast or there was a weird reaction to allergy meds but the "spells" got increasing worse. I started to develope migrains right afterward and often had to rest in the nurses office. The spells could be mildly described as a de ja vu feeling, either a place in time, or a familar scene, then a rush of blood to my head where it felt like there a vice pushing outward, I felt lightheaded and almost faint as I burned from inside out with fever and regained my surroundings. Each spell would last for only 10-20 seconds but I would be drenched with sweat on my brow and pits. The spells came ritual to the point where I had my own supply of asprin in my locker and a note from the school board allowing me to carry it around. I was having anywhere from 3-20 spells a day. My mom came increasing worried about my reference to these spells and scheduled a appointment with our family doctor. The doctor of course found nothing, considering a physical these days consists of nothing more than a glance and a few fisher price like instruments. He refered us to a nerologist (sp?) who arranged an MRI, CAT, EEG and EKG, all of which turned out fine and put us in the poor house. I kept explaining that my spells did not happen under excercize, panic or lack of food, hell, they happened in my sleep! The doctor said I could go to a sleep clinic and try to document one overnight but the bills were too steep. I managed to deal with them one at a time until driving age. They happened on the road, in which I didn't tell my mother for fear of taking away my car. Luckily I didn't have any accidents although I never would lose conciousness (sp?). When appling for a job as a CNA at another hospital, I filled out the health evaluation and check that I had experienced dizziness and migrains. RED FLAG for health staff and I was marked for a special physical to be cleared for work. During the most comprehensive exam of my life the doctor determined, based upon my detailed description of my "spells" I was epilepic. I was deemed not in danger and cleared for work. He later called my mom to explain his diganosis and told her that I would most likely grow out of it, having fewer seizures as I matured. Well, I am 23 and the seizures did get better as time went on. In my late teens and early 20s I only experienced them a couple times every few months. Now they have returned and with even greater punch then I remember. Can anyone relate and what am I to do? I know it is only inconvient and the migrains are painfully annoying, but they really bother me none the less. Talk to me, let me know what you think.