Seizures and memory loss

I have been having seizures for about 4 years now. It all started when my doctor put me on abilify for depression after my mom passed. Ever since then I have had seizures even after i stopped the abilify. but now I have constant seizures, muscle spasms and jerks, the shakes, trouble sleeping, trouble standing for long periods of time and i cant bend over for more than a few minutes at a time and i am experiencing memory loss. Is there anyone else out there who is experiencing these same side effects. and can you tell me what medication helped the best to curb the seizures?