PLEASE HELP

I felt odd yesterday. I just doubled up on my lamictal, and even though it'd been helping I was feeling very pre-ictal yesterday. I was having small absence seizures, and the occasional myoclonic jerk. They were all mild. I attributed it to stress, I've been overdrawn on my account, and I needed a paycheck desperately. Anyways, last night I was exhausted by the time I went to bed. I took all my medications as prescribed, and crashed into what I thought was a peaceful nights sleep. I awoke to what I thought was a knocking on my door. Then something confusing happened. I went in and out of dreams. I was dreaming, but I thought I was doing what I was dreaming. Then I dreamt I had a violent seizure. Then I woke up confused, then I drifted back to sleep. It was almost like when I have what I've dubbed walking seizures when I walk around kind of disoriented, and then don't remember anything. Anyways, this morning I woke up, and I felt SICK to my stomach. I was also exhausted. Then I hopped out of bed, and I realizethat my back was KILLING me. I have sciatica, on and off, but it's been good lately. It all stems from an injury about four years ago. As long as I take precautions when I work out, it hasn't bothered me in some time. Then I noticed a weird smell...and I realized that I'd probably lost control of my bladder in my sleep. Now, I had a pad on because I'm a girl and it's that time of the month (sorry if that's tmi), so it didn't soak through to the mattress, but the sheets smelled a bit like urine. It had of course pretty much dried. Can you have a seizure in your sleep and not wake up? Or possibly wake up disoriented and not really put two and two together until the next morning? It was really strange, I kept thinking I'd looked at the clock, but each time I looked it seemed like time had gone backwards or to far forwards. It was just weird. I'm going to work today, on crutches, with a stupid backbrace. What I wish I had was an excuse. I'm not going to walk in and be like "hey, yeah I had a seizure, how are you?" I've had a really rough week in general, so people already think that I'm a whiner. I'm not, I just had a bad week. I've gotten a lot of suggestions that I've been exaggerating. People don't realize that I'm not, and I hate it. I know I'm going to get jerked around, today, and I hate it. So one...seizures in your sleep? Two...how do you deal with people who question if you're really THAT sick all the time? Three...how do you explain to your employer that you're okay to work, you just might come in kind of banged up for a bit until they sort out your medications. And lastly, has anyone else experienced nasty side effects from the seizures like sprained ligaments, muscle pulls, etc? My muscles tend to contract very hard during my bad seizures, which I hardly ever have that I know of unless I'm having them in my sleep...It's not like I violently shake all over, sometimes, but not usually. Usually it's just like being electrocuted and I can't unclench any of my muscles. Thanks, Achy-breaky me