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Seeing someone with epilepsy
Wed, 01/19/2005 - 02:02Comments
RE: RE: Seeing someone with epilepsy
Submitted by raddog876 on Sun, 2005-01-16 - 20:21
My Great Grandfather had epilepsy. I'm not sure how the girl I'm seeing got it, she used to have grand mal seizures while I have Tonic Clonic Seizures. The only thing I'm worried about is if we both have seizures at the same time which I know is almost impossible to do but it's just something I have in the back of my mind. I really like her and I know that my concern is probably nothing to be concerned about because I know what to do if she has a seizure and she knows what to do if I have a seizure, I can usually just lay down and the seizure goes away. I guess that's all that I'm worried about if she and I both have seizures at the same time.
My Great Grandfather had epilepsy. I'm not sure how the girl I'm seeing got it, she used to have grand mal seizures while I have Tonic Clonic Seizures. The only thing I'm worried about is if we both have seizures at the same time which I know is almost impossible to do but it's just something I have in the back of my mind. I really like her and I know that my concern is probably nothing to be concerned about because I know what to do if she has a seizure and she knows what to do if I have a seizure, I can usually just lay down and the seizure goes away. I guess that's all that I'm worried about if she and I both have seizures at the same time.
RE: Seeing someone with epilepsy
Submitted by Gretchen on Sun, 2005-01-16 - 15:24
Ummmmm.......Can you give more information? Your worries? For instance what whipped through my mind is why do either of you have epilepsy - inherited? If you both have inherited epilepsy then potentially your children would have an increased chance of inheriting that but that's only me doing the math. (Dilantin Moment) I'm sorry can't remember the kind of doctor, but a specialized doctor that can give you percentile odds of what your children with this person could inherit if that's important to either of you could be sought. I have inherited epilepsy, there are quite a few of us in my family and we've found it actually a bonus for us. There is a lot of understanding, reduction of embarrassment, emotionally we support each other far more than others could. We're not married to each other though which is of course a different relationship. You know my opinion globally is that most situations are what you make of it - perceive it to be. That is also a rather "Pollyanna" type attitude I know. My husband doesn't have epilepsy, I sz frequently, I'm very photoconvulsive so going anywhere can be a real ambusher for me and frankly he becomes irritated because our plans are frequently smashed. But he has health problems also that sometimes crash our plans. I have no problem if we have to cancel plans if he's having problems but increasingly it irritates him when we have to change plans because we go somewhere I'm set up to sz by the environment. If one of you sz far more than the other would a competition or an attitude of "if you would just do as I do" occur? IOW - what are your specific concerns?