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Helping my brother cope...

Fri, 01/23/2009 - 10:31

       My brother Joseph (19) was dignosed with epilepsy a little over a year and a half ago. He still has problems admitting that he has it, and it's very hard for him to actually say the words, "I have epilepsy."

     Over the last year and a half though, he was done a lot to help himself control his seziures. He exercises daily, eats healthy, and trys to get plenty of sleep. (the only problem with that is his meds make him have bad nightmares, every night.) Within the last five months my brother has lost around 55 pounds, and is more physcially fit than I have ever seen him in my life. My brother also some weed reqularly, and we know that smoking dosent affect his types of sexiures. (partial-complex)

    Joe is to the point in his epilepsy where hes still angry at all the stuff he can't and won't be able to do until his seziures are under control. My brother loves to cook, hunt, drive...and so much more, and I know he is frustrated that hes not allowed to do anything.

     I want to let my brother know that it is alright that he has epilepsy, that he will be okay, and that he can still live his life. I just need help reassuring him that he will eventually be able to stand on his own to feet.

    I love my brother Joseph very much, out of all five of us, we are the closest. Ever since he got disnosed, we have become even closer, and my brother is my best friend. He tells me all his thoughts, fears, and stories, and vice versa. I want to do everything possiable to help him through all of this.

Any advice on helping out my brother would be great.

 

Shenoah Norem

(16 yrs old)

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