Can someone tell me what is going on

I went to see my doctor as I believed I had symptoms of adult adhd, lack of concentration, being spaced out forgetting things bad working memory, anyway read a load about it and was convinced this was the case. My GP seemed to think my DIY diagnoses unlikely and thought what I was describing was more akin to absence seizures which she explained were a form of epilepsy. Despite the fact this is something my uncle and his father suffered from and thought this unlikely but thought worth checking out so went to neurology appointment to have an EEG. I heard nothing for about 5 months when I had a letter saying my consultant wanted to see me. I assumed that this was a closing meeting as firstly it was months later and surely if I had a condition the NHS would let me know?! And secondly on my first visit the consultant seemed to think that my absence mindedness was more likely to be personality based rather than epilepsy, as I do not lose consciousness I was inclined to agree (for what that’s worth). Anyway I went to the appointment yesterday and he told me that my EEG came back showing epileptic tendencies or something and that I could no longer drive. I really wasn’t expecting this so probably didn’t ask all the questions I should have, as I have left knowing only that he said I have to inform the DVLA and that I will receive an appointment for a sleep deprived EEG. I don’t even now what type of epilepsy he thinks I have or whether he has formally diagnosed me. To some extent this is my fault as I should have asked more questions. I am booking an appointment with my GP but I can’t get one for nearly three weeks, I don’t blackout, so I’m guessing from what I’ve read he thinks I may have simple partial seizures, which some of the feelings that are described on the web for this I guess do fit, feelings of fear dejavu etc, when I was younger I used to get a weird feeling which I find hard to describe other than my it was like a buzzing in my brain and I felt like I was separate from myself, very weird. I also on occasion especially when tired have periods where it’s like I’m conscious but I can’t wake my body, don’t know if that is connected. But I digress; if I do have this mild form where I don’t lose consciousness will they really take my driving license? Timing stinks as I have just left a business partnership within a telemarketing company to take up a job offer form a client, which is a field based sales role, traveling all over the country, I really can’t do my job without a car and sales is all I can do, I left school at 17 and have no qualifications other than my experience and success as what I do. Is it possible this guy has misdiagnosed me? I read that an EEG alone does not confirm epilepsy so would I be a fool to tell the DVLA that I have it right now? I am really mad with the NHS, the time it has taken for them to give me my results is disgusting and then the lack of explanation about what is happening to me, if I new of a factor that would prevent him from ever practicing medicine again I think he would expect and deserve a full explanation. anyones thoughts would be appreciated Justin