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Grandpa's Beautiful Granddaughter needs help
Wed, 07/31/2013 - 12:23My granddaughter has had seizures since she was six (6) years old. She just turned 16 and is heartbroken that she can't even think about getting her license or driving because she still has seizures at a rate of about one (1) per month. As she gets older her normal beautiful personality is being transformed into a beautiful girl who is beginning to think she is less than everyone else because she has gran mal seizures.
Her doctor is not talking about exploring surgery and is just treating her with medication at this point. He has increased her medication over the last year but her seizures are still not controlled.
I'm thinking about taking her to the Mayo clinic or to an expert for her to be checked to see if she is a candidate for surgery or just how to explore this option. She has had many tests to isolate the brain section that is the source of the problem but he is still not recommending surgery however he is not a surgeon.
If you have gone through the process to explore the surgery option, please send me any information you have so I can start the process for her.
Thank you,
A Concerned Grandpa
Comments
Re: Grandpa's Beautiful Granddaughter needs help
Submitted by PressOn4aCure on Sun, 2013-09-01 - 10:58
Re: Grandpa's Beautiful Granddaughter needs help
Submitted by Frank Lee on Sun, 2013-09-01 - 12:10
Hello Grandpa
I'm hoping I can give suggestions but not feel impersonable or noncompassionate. (Not sure if those are real words).
An uncontrollable seizure condition would often be several seizures in a day or very severe seizures...long and very exhausting. Having one seizure a month may be a reason for a doctor to hold off on surgery. Maybe let us know what happens during the generalized seizure and for how long.
Taking several medications at high doses would be another factor to consider. How many different medications, at what dose, and with what side effects?
What is the chance that her situation will improve, stay the same, or worsen after surgery? As the brain continues to develop, would she need further surgery?
Regarding the Mayo Clinic, you should probably inquire on this site, or anywhere else, about the possible benefits. It is not inexpensive, and often not covered by insurance. Sometimes a patient can spend a week going through many tests, and still be told that it will be best to remain on certain medications.
Good luck and keep us informed.
Hello Grandpa
I'm hoping I can give suggestions but not feel impersonable or noncompassionate. (Not sure if those are real words).
An uncontrollable seizure condition would often be several seizures in a day or very severe seizures...long and very exhausting. Having one seizure a month may be a reason for a doctor to hold off on surgery. Maybe let us know what happens during the generalized seizure and for how long.
Taking several medications at high doses would be another factor to consider. How many different medications, at what dose, and with what side effects?
What is the chance that her situation will improve, stay the same, or worsen after surgery? As the brain continues to develop, would she need further surgery?
Regarding the Mayo Clinic, you should probably inquire on this site, or anywhere else, about the possible benefits. It is not inexpensive, and often not covered by insurance. Sometimes a patient can spend a week going through many tests, and still be told that it will be best to remain on certain medications.
Good luck and keep us informed.
Re: Grandpa's Beautiful Granddaughter needs help
Submitted by just_joe on Wed, 2013-08-07 - 16:44
I saw this again and wanted to see if you had received any other posts. This person left one that does say alot and it also tell you that thre are things that can be done to assist her which others might not have.
I had some problems back in the early years I did learn not to use it as a crutch. I also told others that I could do anythng they could and other things better. I loved shop and wanted to go into wood shop but I couldn't becasue if I had a seizure and was around a saw it might not have been good to watch. I did however go into drafting which I loved. I also worked on our cars at home. Before I was out of high school I ws able to take a motor apart and put it together on paper and manually. Please let your grand daughter know that there will be times when she can't do some thngs but there will be things she can do that others can't. I worked my fanny off and worked my way up in every job I had. A friend of mine and I started a small business and were doing great until a recession shut down businesses i the area we were in. We closed the doors and paid off the bank and moved to Dallas where I went to work in a call center. I was working on an AT&T project. I started in sales, went into customer service then to the save team. The project manager was dropping esecutive appeals on my desk wanting them resolved. I learned how to program the numbers and do all the data entry to make the numbers work. I talked to the Executive Appeals Office in NY and Atlanta. So if a person with epilepsy can do those things your grand daughter can excell because the techonolgy today she can do almost anything.
I hope this helps
Understand that there are many people like me that work in the background doing some things others don't think about. Like new drug studies. I have been in many over the past 8-10 years and some of those drugs anre being used today with success.
I saw this again and wanted to see if you had received any other posts. This person left one that does say alot and it also tell you that thre are things that can be done to assist her which others might not have.
I had some problems back in the early years I did learn not to use it as a crutch. I also told others that I could do anythng they could and other things better. I loved shop and wanted to go into wood shop but I couldn't becasue if I had a seizure and was around a saw it might not have been good to watch. I did however go into drafting which I loved. I also worked on our cars at home. Before I was out of high school I ws able to take a motor apart and put it together on paper and manually. Please let your grand daughter know that there will be times when she can't do some thngs but there will be things she can do that others can't. I worked my fanny off and worked my way up in every job I had. A friend of mine and I started a small business and were doing great until a recession shut down businesses i the area we were in. We closed the doors and paid off the bank and moved to Dallas where I went to work in a call center. I was working on an AT&T project. I started in sales, went into customer service then to the save team. The project manager was dropping esecutive appeals on my desk wanting them resolved. I learned how to program the numbers and do all the data entry to make the numbers work. I talked to the Executive Appeals Office in NY and Atlanta. So if a person with epilepsy can do those things your grand daughter can excell because the techonolgy today she can do almost anything.
I hope this helps
Understand that there are many people like me that work in the background doing some things others don't think about. Like new drug studies. I have been in many over the past 8-10 years and some of those drugs anre being used today with success.