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How Do You Cope?

Sat, 05/12/2012 - 15:01
I was diagnosed 5 months ago and I'm not coping well. My family insults me and refuses to educate themselves on my condition (they assume it's "common sense" and they already know). So, I've found that it helps to cope with pills and alcohol, cutting, journaling, etc... What are some ways you cope when you have no one in person to talk to and are constantly insulted and let down by people who claim to care about you?

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Re: How Do You Cope?

Submitted by rosanna1980 on Sat, 2012-12-08 - 17:28
I've tried to attend that meeting a few times. I can't drive and Claudia (the host) hasn't answered my emails or calls. I really want to go, but have no one to take me.

Re: How Do You Cope?

Submitted by rosanna1980 on Mon, 2012-12-10 - 01:50

Thank you all for your care and support. That is always needed. Unfortunately, about 9 months before my first seizure, I broke my foot. They didn't discover what was causing such pain until 6 weeks later, So, now, it has somehow affected the nerves. I have bad foot pain, and am being tested for peripheral neuropathy. I also hear and see things that aren't there- flashes of light.

From being assaulted and abused throughout  my life, I also have severe PTSD and social anxiety. I stay at home. The side effects that make me jerk and talk funny, fall, etc... would be embarassing in public. I have tonic clonic and complex partial seizures. One day, I kept having the complex partial ones for a couple hours in my bed. It wouldn't stop so I called an ambulance. They told me they aren't trained to deal with seizures, and the doctor said I was psychotic and even ordered a psych exam. She told me she never heard of that and I was just dilusional. I almost got sent to the psych ward. Thankfully, she was able to call my neurologist and he confirmed everything I told her. sigh. I love to travel when I can. That helps me get my mind off things. But, now I carry a letter from my neurologist in my purse in case that happens again. :(

Thank you all for your care and support. That is always needed. Unfortunately, about 9 months before my first seizure, I broke my foot. They didn't discover what was causing such pain until 6 weeks later, So, now, it has somehow affected the nerves. I have bad foot pain, and am being tested for peripheral neuropathy. I also hear and see things that aren't there- flashes of light.

From being assaulted and abused throughout  my life, I also have severe PTSD and social anxiety. I stay at home. The side effects that make me jerk and talk funny, fall, etc... would be embarassing in public. I have tonic clonic and complex partial seizures. One day, I kept having the complex partial ones for a couple hours in my bed. It wouldn't stop so I called an ambulance. They told me they aren't trained to deal with seizures, and the doctor said I was psychotic and even ordered a psych exam. She told me she never heard of that and I was just dilusional. I almost got sent to the psych ward. Thankfully, she was able to call my neurologist and he confirmed everything I told her. sigh. I love to travel when I can. That helps me get my mind off things. But, now I carry a letter from my neurologist in my purse in case that happens again. :(

How Do You Cope?

Submitted by Desert Savior on Sun, 2012-12-09 - 18:01
Hi you gave really good advice about not drinking that nobody wants to hear most time or nearly all times to " give up the drink" its hard yes everyone seems to drink around you when you go out but it can really have a great affect on life itself as you know. And with seizures and alcohol both together the best of minds can hardly keep up with the damage, but there is some hope!!! Peoples minds can recover from the damage done, but no doctor can just give you a certain date of when you will be well you just have to be convicted and stay strong. Eat good healthy food exercise your body and also your mind and become a stronger person inside first!

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